all: Update certificate lifetimes (fixes #6036) (#6078)

This adds a certificate lifetime parameter to our certificate generation
and hard codes it to twenty years in some uninteresting places. In the
main binary there are a couple of constants but it results in twenty
years for the device certificate and 820 days for the HTTPS one. 820 is
less than the 825 maximum Apple allows nowadays.

This also means we must be prepared for certificates to expire, so I add
some handling for that and generate a new certificate when needed. For
self signed certificates we regenerate a month ahead of time. For other
certificates we leave well enough alone.

cmd/strelaysrv/main.go

@@ -155,7 +155,7 @@ func main() {
 	cert, err := tls.LoadX509KeyPair(certFile, keyFile)
 	if err != nil {
 		log.Println("Failed to load keypair. Generating one, this might take a while...")
-		cert, err = tlsutil.NewCertificate(certFile, keyFile, "strelaysrv")
+		cert, err = tlsutil.NewCertificate(certFile, keyFile, "strelaysrv", 20*365)
 		if err != nil {
 			log.Fatalln("Failed to generate X509 key pair:", err)
 		}